About Lesson
Key Message:
The way you communicate with your child shapes their self-esteem, resilience, and emotional health. Positive, supportive communication helps your child feel seen, heard, and valued.
Discussion Points:
- Active listening: How to truly hear your child without interrupting or dismissing their feelings.
- Using “I” statements to express yourself calmly and clearly.
- Avoiding criticism and judgment in favor of encouragement and guidance.
Video Prompt:
Title: “How to Talk So Your Kids Will Listen”
Length: ~8–10 minutes
Script Example:
“Think about the last time your child tried to tell you something, and you were distracted or half-listening. How did that conversation go? Now think about what it would feel like if someone really listened to you. That’s what your kids need—your full attention and empathy.”
Action Steps:
- Active Listening Exercise:
- Practice listening without interrupting.
- Repeat back what your child says to show you’ve heard them:
- Example: Child: “I’m scared about the test tomorrow.”
- Dad: “I hear you’re feeling nervous about the test. Let’s talk about it.”
- Positive Affirmations:
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- Write down three positive affirmations you can say to your child daily.
- Example:
- “I’m proud of you.”
- “You’re so important to me.”
- “You can do hard things.”