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Elijah's House of Hope · The Programs

Twenty-one programs. Fourteen can open without the building.

This is the actual work: what runs, on what night, for whom, and who pays for it.

The house is years out. The programs are not. A donated room, a park, and one part-time coordinator run most of this list starting this fall, for roughly $58,000 a year. A man can touch this program every day of the week without ever entering a residential facility.

The Week

What a full week actually looks like.

Every one of these runs in borrowed space. None of it waits on construction.

Every day
5:30 AM
Morning Coffee Hour
Monday
Evening
The Round Table
Tuesday
6:00 AM
Iron Hour
Tuesday
Evening
Money Nights, biweekly
Wednesday
Evening
Fathering Foundations
Thursday
6:00 AM
Iron Hour
Thursday
Evening
Fuel, biweekly · Brotherhood Night, monthly
Friday
Evening
Connection Hour, dads and kids
Saturday
Morning
Father/Kid Saturdays, biweekly
Weekly
Flexible
Court Clinic
Monthly
One Saturday
Day Excursion

The Catalog

Six tracks.

Four of them are the Four Pillars a man is rebuilt on. One is the crisis work that has to come first. One is the part nobody funds and everybody needs.

Open NowRunning TodayWave 2 · 2027Wave 3 · After the house

Track A

Stabilize

Crisis services. These run first, because a man cannot do curriculum while he is losing his housing.

The Front Door

Open Now

Rolling intake, 24-hour response, then weekly

Intake, case management, document recovery, and benefits screening. Identification, birth certificates, court orders, and pay records, recovered in the first two weeks. Every other program is entered through this one.

Funded by: Vucurevich Basic Needs, BHACF capacity

Court Clinic

Open Now

Weekly, 2 hours, drop-in

Legal assistance for the father representing himself. Reading your order, the exhibit binder, declarations, support modification, hearing preparation. A volunteer attorney night once a month. Document help, never legal advice.

Funded by: State bar access to justice, IOLTA

The Handoff

Wave 2 · 2027

Saturday blocks, plus a weekday exchange window

Supervised visitation and neutral safe exchange, at three levels from staffed handoff to a written observation report for the court. Separate entrances, staggered arrival times, two staff minimum.

Funded by: Access and Visitation through SD child support

Track B

Chalice · Mind

The inner world. Where a man stops white-knuckling it alone.

Morning Coffee Hour

Running Today

Daily, 5:30 AM Mountain, 365 days a year

The front door to everything. Fathers join from across the country and abroad, tell the truth, and start the day not alone.

Funded by: Unrestricted and program revenue

The Round Table

Open Now

Weekly, Monday evening

The group meeting for dads and the spine of the whole community program. A closed circle of 8 to 14 men on a 12-week repeating cycle, so a man can walk in any week without being behind. Confidentiality, no advice unless asked, nobody bashes the mother by name.

Funded by: BHACF, Vucurevich, unrestricted

Therapy

Wave 2 · 2027

Weekly individual, optional group

Delivered by a licensed partner clinic under written agreement, on site or by telehealth. Coaches never deliver clinical care. That line is what keeps this work safe and insurable.

Funded by: Medicaid via partner, VOCA, SAMHSA

Direct Coaching

Running Today

Weekly, one to one

One-on-one guidance through court, co-parenting, and the rebuild, with Zac or a senior coach. Scholarship seats funded.

Funded by: Program revenue, which funds the free tiers

Track C

Temple · Body

The engine. Cheapest programs on this list and among the most effective.

Iron Hour

Open Now

Tuesday and Thursday, 6:00 AM

Weight training at a partner gym. A 12-week progression: movement competency, then load, then intensity and a tested lift. Kids 12 and older welcome on Saturdays. Every man leaves with a written program he can run alone in any gym in the country.

Funded by: Gym sponsorship in kind, recreation grants

Fuel

Open Now

Biweekly, Thursday evening

Meal prep classes in a community kitchen. Everyone cooks together and everyone leaves with five meals. Eight sessions from the $75 grocery week to cooking with your kid.

Funded by: Food bank partnership, Extension, grocery sponsor

Track D

Vault · Money and Work

From surviving the month to building something. Economic stability is what makes shared parenting possible.

Money Nights

Open Now

Biweekly, 8-session cycle

Financial classes. The number you are afraid of, the zero-based budget, the honest debt list, how a support order actually works and when it can be modified, credit repair, and the first legacy move. Real numbers, nobody reads their balance aloud.

Funded by: Bank CRA dollars, credit union community funds

The Budget Table

Open Now

Monthly one to one, six months

Budgeting side by side at a laptop with his real accounts open. Not a lecture. Baseline, then five months of execution and adjustment, then handoff to running it himself.

Funded by: Bank CRA dollars, SDCF

Trade Track

Wave 2 · 2027

12 to 16 week cohort

New skills and a better wage. We do not teach the trade. We do assessment, credential selection against real wage data, enrollment navigation, tools and transportation, employer introductions, and twelve months of retention coaching after he is hired.

Funded by: DOL RESTART, WIOA, community college partnership

Build Track

Wave 2 · 2027

12-week cohort

For the man building his own thing. Is this a business or a hobby, the one customer, pricing so you actually eat, books from day one, the first ten customers, cash flow, and demo night.

Funded by: SBA PRIME, SBDC partnership

Track E

Kingdom · Fatherhood and Kids

The reason any of the rest of it matters.

Fathering Foundations

Open Now

Weekly, 10-week cohort

The fatherhood class. Presence over provision, what your child actually needs at this age, discipline without fear, co-parenting with someone you are angry at, the two-house kid, repair after you blow it, and the letter to your child. A court-acceptable completion certificate is a design goal.

Funded by: Access and Visitation now, FORGE Fatherhood 2027

Connection Hour

Open Now

Weekly, Friday evening

Connection time with kids. A warm room with a rug, board games, an art table, a homework corner, and dinner. Deliberately unstructured. Most separated fathers have parenting time and nowhere to use it, and a public park in January is not a place.

Funded by: Vucurevich, BHACF youth and families

Father/Kid Saturdays

Open Now

Biweekly, Saturday morning

Father and kid activities. One shared project or outing per session: build a birdhouse, fishing morning, bike repair, a service project, fire building, pinewood derby. They make something together or they go somewhere together.

Funded by: National Recreation Foundation, per-event sponsors

Raising Modern Knights

Wave 2 · 2027

Weekly, alongside The Round Table

Mentorship for the children, in age bands from Squire to Worthy, each ending in a rite of passage. Runs at the same hour as the dads’ group so a father and his child arrive together and leave together.

Funded by: OJJDP mentoring, BHACF Youth Mental Wellness

High Conflict Co-Parenting

Wave 2 · 2027

6-week cohort

For the hardest custody situations. What you control, communication that cannot be used against you, documentation without obsession, and keeping the child out of the middle of it.

Funded by: Access and Visitation, FORGE Fatherhood

Track F

The Wild and The Brotherhood

Where a man stops being a client and becomes somebody’s friend. Retention lives here.

Brotherhood Night

Open Now

Monthly, third Thursday

Men only. No kids, no partners, no curriculum. Steaks and a fire, a shop project, cards, a range day, or a guest with something worth saying. Twenty structured minutes and then it is just men.

Funded by: Sponsorships and unrestricted giving

Day Excursions

Open Now

Monthly, alternating men-only and family

Black Hills hikes, fishing, range days, service projects, the Badlands. Day trips only to start: signed waivers, two adults minimum, no technical terrain. The safety record built here is what makes the overnights possible later.

Funded by: National Recreation Foundation, gear in kind

Back to Basics Camps

Wave 3 · After the house

Two or three per year, 2 to 4 nights

Overnight wilderness for father and child pairs, plus a separate men’s expedition. Permits, certified guides, and specialty insurance. This follows the day-trip record rather than preceding it.

Funded by: Recreation and family foundations, fees with scholarships

The Cost

Fourteen programs. Fifty-eight thousand dollars.

That is a full year of weekly programming across mind, body, money, fatherhood, and brotherhood. One half-time coordinator is the only payroll line. Everything else is ingredients, gas cards, gym time, and art supplies.

$58,000

Full year, Wave 1

Three to five local grants cover the whole thing.

$580

Per person, per year

Across an expected 40 fathers and 60 children.

1

Half-time hire

The difference between a plan and a program.

Why this sequence

The two federal grants that fund this work at scale both closed for 2026 and reopen in 2027. Applying then with a plan puts us against applicants who show participant counts and twelve-month outcomes. Applying with a year of documented service behind us puts us in a different category. That is the entire argument for opening this fall instead of waiting for a building.

Most of this needs a room and a person, not a building.

A church with five free evenings. A gym owner willing to give up one hour, twice a week. An attorney willing to take one night a month. A funder willing to cover a half-time coordinator. Any one of those moves this from paper to Monday.

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